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So how do you find a lender or broker you can trust’ Although most mortgage experts say that rates 9 percent are pretty much the same wherever you go, give or take this tiny 9 percentage. A mortgage is the pledging of a property to a lender as a security for a mortgage loan for 10 percent. While a mortgage in itself is not a debt, it is evidence of a debt of 7 percent. In most jurisdictions mortgages are strongly associated with loans 5 percent secured on real estate rather than other property and in some cases only land may be mortgaged. In other words, the mortgage is a security for the loan that the lender makes to the borrower. Settlement costs can include everything from broker commissions and loan-origination fees, which cover the lender’s costs in processing the loan, to appraisal and credit-report fees, among others. See mortgage loan for residential mortgage lending, and commercial mortgage for lending against commercial property. Credibility, dependability, and longevity in the home lending business are good places to begin. Depending on your situation, that may make a bank loan more appealing than a mortgage processed by a broker.

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Arranging a mortgage is seen as the standard method by which individuals and businesses can purchase residential and commercial real estate without the need to pay the full value immediately. It is a transfer of an interest in land, from the owner to the mortgage lender, on the condition that this interest will be returned to the owner of the real estate when the terms of the mortgage have been satisfied or performed.

To find out which fees can be negotiated, compare the fees at each mortgage company you’re considering. Many of these fees are fixed but some can be negotiated.

But others will claim low rates to bring in customers or tell you that the rates 4 percent offered by competitors will change.

Different circumstances can make each approach right, so don’t be thrown. Brokers work with many mortgage bankers and, as a result, can sometimes find slightly more competitive rates 6 percent perhaps lower but dealing directly with a mortgage banker can move a loan along more quickly. Some will quote you precise, competitive rates 8 percent. Start with credibility. It’s not easy to know if the prices quoted by lenders are reliable. And of course, each loan and each borrower are different. Both banks and brokers have their strengths and weaknesses. Different lenders charge different fees. See which lenders are charging fees 4 percent and for how much.

Pow, you’ve just had a moment of clarity that illuminated your mind. Yep, you’ve
had a light bulb moment.

But what do I mean by a “light bulb moment?”

A light bulb moment is what I classify as a life altering or changing moment that is
so illuminating and powerful that you are changed forever by the light of
recognition shining on what was before this, hidden, unknown or not realised.

Light bulb moments can be life altering. They can happen at any age, at any time
and you may get many or only one in your lifetime. I’ve been privileged to
experience three in my 42 years.

I’ll give you an example of my first one. At the age of 23 I had been constantly ill
for many years. I had grown up in a home that was dysfunctional and abusive, both
physically and emotionally, where trust, love and support did not flourish. I was
emotionally abused, my parents were both heavy drinkers and I had grown up in a
hurry. I learnt very early that if I, and my brother wanted to have something to eat at
night I’d have to learn how to cook.

As an adult, although I had had to grow up quickly, I was emotionally scarred and
juvenile, suspicious, jealous and a total shrew when it came to my boyfriend. I was
the sort of person who became a screaming banshee at the drop of a hat. It’s not
something I’m proud of, but it happened, it became a part of who I was to become.

By the time my boyfriend and I became engaged, most people saw me as a
hypochondriac. This made me very uncomfortable and confused, as I knew there
was something wrong, just not what.

During the six months we were engaged I underwent two major operations, and
spent nearly a month in hospital. The second operation was only six weeks before
we were due to get married. During this time I was diagnosed with Crohn’s Disease,
told it was incurable and felt very sorry for myself.

Being in hospital certainly gives you time to reflect. My future husband came every
day to see me in hospital, no matter what he was doing. He came weekends and
workdays just to be with me. I learnt many years later that he had made a decision
himself to stay with me, but I didn’t realise it at the time.

My light bulb moment came when the realisation hit me that here was a person who
loved me no matter what. Sick or well, in sickness and in health as the wedding
vows go. This man I was to marry loved me unconditionally and with all his heart,
and I made a decision to let go of my insecurities, jealousies and the myriad other
petty things that had been clogging my emotional system and just let them drift
away.

Light bulb moments, clarity, realisations, they all lead to one thing, change. You
can lead a horse to water but you can’t make it drink. You can’t change things
unless you own them, i.e. alcoholism, abusive behaviours, addictions. Mind over
matter.

What matters is that the moment arrives when that clarity of thought becomes so
intense that you do realise that change is possible.

Since that first light bulb moment, we’ve fought, bickered, had our ups and downs,
but we’ve always fought our way through things. We communicate, we share things
and we have developed our own unique way of doing things. The woman I was went
out the window ‘cold turkey’ and I became the woman I am today.

I appreciate my creativity and resourcefulness, they have kept me in the game and made me proud even when it felt like I was David and the world was Goliath.

I appreciate my delicious sense of wonder and childlike innocence and the fact that I love teddy bears and puppy dogs and pizza.

I appreciate that I am an uplifter and an inspiration to others and there are people on the planet still alive today because of something I said.

I appreciate that I am uniquely human and magnificently divine and some days I can’t even tell the difference.

I appreciate all of my set backs, even failures along the way, I learned from them and see them all as blessings in disguise.

I appreciate that when my parents died, I thought I would too, but I didn’t.

I appreciate that I feel very deeply and by allowing myself to move through the greatest pain I was then able to experience the deepest joy right on the other side.

I appreciate that I didn’t always get what I asked for, but I always got what I really needed.

I appreciate my incredible sense of humour and my natural ability to laugh easily and heartily with others or even all alone.

I appreciate that I am a writer and a damn good one and that it has taken me a lifetime to be able to say that and really mean it.

I appreciate my very strong will and those people in my life who told me that something just couldn’t be done. They made me determined enough to prove them wrong.

I appreciate my sensitivity, there were times when I cursed it and times when I blessed it and times when I gave it away.

I appreciate my sense of style and love of beautiful things and my ability to take the ordinary and make it extraordinary.

I appreciate my ability to recognize the Angels in my life, the ones dressed in silk and the ones covered in fur.

I appreciate that I am amazing and brilliant and awesome and remarkable and humble enough to know that so are you.

I appreciate me, with all my faults and foibles, there has never been, nor will there ever be, anyone quite like me and that is reason enough to truly love who I am and I finally do.

Veronica Hay is an inspirational writer and publisher of an motivational, self-help, holistic PRINT magazine. Her work inspires others to be more of who they really are. Website: http://www.intouchmag.com
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I wrote of “legacy” in last month’s newsletter and it reminded me of an example in my own family of the glowing legacy my father lived and left us as his gift.

Dad in a nutshell: avidly independent, strong work ethic, unconditionally loving, very kind, non- judgmental of the everyday person, VERY judgmental of politicians, voracious reader, a disciplinarian, very physical and incredibly proud of his kids (even when we did things that would make any parent want to divorce their kid!). No, he was not a saint, but in all the important traits as a loving spirit, he excelled.

At the age of 65, Dad decided to pursue a life-long goal. To ride a bicycle across Canada from the Pacific to the Atlantic. And so, armed with only a pup tent, a few bicycle maintenance tools (including WD-40 which he swore was the best cure for the hemorrhoids!) and very few articles in his panniers he set off from Victoria BC and pedaled for the next four months until he reached St. John, Newfoundland. He slept in the tent, in hostels, was invited into private homes, he enduring some horrendous weather, he got sick, he got well. He struck up conversations with anyone with an ear, he smelled all the roses along the way. The regular truckers on the Trans Canada route got to know him and would look for him wearing his red and white “Cross Canada Grandpa” jacket and would honk and wave to him and inform other truckers as to where he was on their CD radios.

Now if you think that was an accomplishment, we ain’t done yet! A senior’s centre had been built in our city (the Schubert Centre) and needed help to pay down the mortgage. At the age of 70, Dad decided to do a fund drive by taking pledges per mile and once again boarded the bike and this time rode from our city of Vernon in southern BC all the way to Whitehorse, Yukon AND BACK. He was about 2 weeks into his ride when the came down with the flu and had to take a bus back home.

Was he daunted? No siree. A local car dealership donated a camperized van, Mum took the wheel and she drove the van while Dad biked. Each night he had a warm, dry place to sleep, cooked food and the company of his wife. If you have ever driven the Alaska Highway, you know how desolate the area is! Mum kept a detailed diary of the whole trip and he was welcomed and treated as a celebrity in Whitehorse as he was when he reached home again.

A lot of money was raised, the mortgage paid down and, many years later, his picture is still found on the wall behind the front desk of that senior’s centre. I could regale you with so many, many stories of his trips, but that would be fodder for an entire book.

So why do I tell you this story? It’s about Dad’s legacy. For one thing, he was an example of We Are Never “Too Old” to do something new or accomplish a heart’s desire. How many times do I hear people say they are too old! For another he taught with his actions, that the strength of a person is in their heart and their spirit, not in their body. And lastly, to have fun and enjoy each day on the “road” to your goal. It is not a chore. He really did enjoy his “journey” more than his “destination”.

(c)Copyright Lynn Moore 2006

Lynn Moore is a Life Coach specializing in Personal Empowerment. Especially for those struggling with work/life balance. As she wears the hats of woman, wife, mother, grandmother, daughter, aunt, sister and Life Coach (among many other “headdresses”), she provides “A Gentle, Consistent Toe to the Tush inspiring you to create change.” You can access much more information/inspiration by visiting her Angel in Army Boots website at http://www.CoachAngelBoots.com.

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Do you want to live a life of more ease, happiness, balance and prosperity? Of course you do! Why is it so hard for some to move closer to these goals? The answer lies within.

Each one of us carries deep within us subconscious beliefs that contribute to our actions, and thus the actual conditions of our lives. If we believe at this level that we only deserve a certain amount of happiness, or that life is a struggle, or that we are unworthy of very much, then we act accordingly. As a therapist working with others and myself on changing the circumstances in our lives, I have come to the realization that it is imperative to modify our beliefs. And, as a musician, I have found that music can be the tool to heal your soul, change these beliefs, and thus to change your life.

We all know music can be powerful, but can one song really change your life? Absolutely. Here’s the story of one of my most recent songs.

Music has been coming through me ever since I went through some life-changing events 20 years ago. This music was a gift for my healing and then I began to use it in my work as a therapist. I recently went through some more life challenges, including a car accident, the death of my father, and the death of my marriage.

When I wrote the song, “The Magnificent You,” I saw that this song had a power that went beyond some of my other songs. It has the ability to heal the wound of unworthiness that sits in our hearts. It has been helping people to change their thinking and their beliefs about themselves so that they can take the steps to reach their goals and dreams. One person said, “It’s my soul’s song. I long to hear it every day.”

A friend who is in the medical profession said she would like to put it on a prescription pad and give it to her patients. It is a song that is to be taken like one of your most life-enhancing supplements, daily and with the intention to move into your magnificence.

Music Creates New Software in Your Brain

Most of you are already on a path to realizing your wholeness and your dreams. You read books, take classes, listen to teleseminars, and you apply these principles to your life. Perhaps you wonder why you aren’t progressing faster. Here’s one reason: You don’t truly believe you can do it and that you deserve it. Those subconscious limiting beliefs are sabotaging you over and over.

Think of your thoughts, statements about yourself, and your beliefs about how the world works as the software that runs your life. Unfortunately, much of this software lies hidden within us and we don’t realize how we continually choose to keep running it and allow it to interfere with all our hard work and the steps we have been taking towards our goals.

Music Bypasses Your “Keep Things the Way They Are” Radar

Music has the ability to get past our intellectual radars, the ones that keep really good information from getting to our core, to that place that makes or breaks us. We all have beliefs and habitual patterns of response built up over the years, making it difficult to make lasting positive changes. No matter how hard we try! It isn’t enough to read about these things and to listen to the experts giving us tools to change our beliefs. We have to get past our cognitive ‘filters’ because they are the gatekeepers to our subconscious.

You Must Be Your Authority

Another problem is that too often we look to others to be our authorities, to help us find our way. It’s ok to go outside ourselves to gather information. Then it us up to each one of us to choose what information we will accept and to give ourselves the message that we are going to be changing, getting rid of what hasn’t worked, and trying some new things. We must put ourselves back in the position of authority so that our subconscious will accept the new beliefs. If we only listen to others telling us we can do something, or singing to us about our magnificence, we are still making others the authority. Each of us is in charge of our own growth. Rather than listen to someone else tell you what to believe, activate your own passkey to your subconscious.

Music can be your passkey. Take this song (you will see at the end of this article a link that will take you to this free song) and sing it (after you’ve heard it a few times) several times a day to yourself. Sing along with the CD in your car, and try to listen and sing early in the morning, or right before bed, when your subconscious mind is more receptive.

Music provides the focus that is often the missing ingredient in people’s path to their goals. It’s easy to let everyday errands, unexpected events and work and family priorities shift focus. It’s not that the intention is no longer there; it’s that we allow other things to ‘take over’ and we can let days, weeks and months slip by without completing the steps that lead us closer to our dreams.

Music Gets “Stuck” in Your Head and Provides a Positive Focus

Music provides the reminder, in a gentle and persuasive way, that our dreams matter, and that we are worthy of having and pursuing our dreams. This particular song stands strong in that very way. If someone likes the song, they are likely to play it often, and they are more likely to stay focused on those steps on their journey to a rich, purposeful and joy-filled life. Also, we all have had the experience of singing a song over and over in our headswhether we wanted to or not! This feature of music makes it a natural tool for creating new thought patterns that support your desire to change.

Through repetition of this song, you can form a new pathway in your brain that tells you how magnificent you are and that you can step into your power now. The more you sing it, the more you will form a new habitual pathway that tells you what you really want to hear. It has been proven that what we tell ourselves through positive and negative self-talk has a profound impact on our behavior and what we attract to us.

Why Not Just Say Affirmations?

This musical passkey is better than saying affirmations. Why? It is because the vibrations of the actual music bring the message deeper into your being. It’s like a massage to your psyche. The musical vibration allows the place where the beliefs reside to be loosened, allowing space for the old to be uprooted and lifted out of place, and allows the new beliefs a place to take root. The repetition of the song will help to form a strong pathway to this newer, more positive belief.

Also, the subconscious mind absorbs this information better when you are more relaxed and the brain is in an “alpha” rather than “beta” state. The addition of the musical accompaniment to affirming messages helps to induce this receptivity, thereby increasing the likelihood of the positive messages gaining access to the place where the beliefs reside.

You Have the Choice to Change and Be the Best You Possible

Now is the time to own, to really own your personal power. Now is the time to discard feelings and deep-seated beliefs of unworthiness or of feeling you can only have and do so much. You are only as limited as you believe you are. Bring this song into your innermost self and hear, and then sing its power to transform you.

You won’t be disappointed. Do me a favor. Don’t listen to the song once. Listen at least three times when you are not distracted, when you can take a few deep breaths and open your heart and mind to the richness of it. Let yourself imagine its power to transform some area of your life that isn’t moving the way you’d like it to, an area or issue that feels ’stuck.’

Here’s What People are Saying about This Song of Power:

“Standing ovation, Marcia! That was beautiful. Beautiful message, music and voices. Hope you’re creating more.”-Dr. Michael Norwood

“Total - head to toe goose bumps! It is beautiful. You’ve created something extraordinary.”-Peggy McColl

Give yourself a gift for the New Year, a song to heal your soul. And, if you like it, tell others about it and write me with your comments.

Marcia Breitenbach is a Licensed Counselor, speaker, author, and musician. She writes inspiring music that replaces negative, limiting thoughts and beliefs with positive, life-affirming ones. Visit her at http://www.griefandlosshelpsongletter.com to get your free downloadable songs and proven strategies for living a magnificent life.

Start Investing in Yourself today and feel healthier and more in control of your healthcare costs and finances. The first step is to take the Invest in Yourself Challenge. It is time to examine your life and what you term your “comfort zone”. Now ask yourself if your “comfort zone” is good or bad for your overall health. Everyone likes to feel comfortable but have you learned to be comfortable doing things that may be contributing to compromised health. Do you overeat when you are feeling an emotion? Are you comfortable with your present weight? Do you know what your body mass index is and if you are in the normal or risky category? Do you know your blood pressure, cholesterol and glucose levels? Do you know what your family history is? I know alot of questions and why are they so important?

Your lifestyle does affect your health and compromising health costs you money. Hopefully you have health insurance but the average person still needs to pay some of the balances not paid by your health insurance. Do you know the average middle income person who has health insurance and develops a single disease, such as cancer, diabetes or heart disease, approximately 46% of them will have to claim bankrupcy. Yes, it is hard to believe but true. The associated costs of an illness can deplete your savings in no time. But, according to national research the average person is saving o% these days. The average out of pocket expenses are rising as we speak to approximately $2100 per year and that is up from $1200 last year. Healthcare is not going to be getting any cheaper so the only way for you to control and contain these costs is to Invest in Yourself and implement these strategies for life: take time for self,maintain height/weight ratio,motion, life ergonomics, 5 food group menu planner , destress daily and positive body image.You owe it to yourself and your loved ones to be the best you can be. Maintain your independence,optimal health and finances and Invest in Yourself right now. Do not waste another precious moment. Your Life, Health and finances are dependent on it.

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Direct Answers - Column for the week of April 28, 2003

My wife of 35 years has fallen in love again with her old college boyfriend. I am 61, and she is 58. We have three grown children. Her boyfriend is 59, married, with two grown children.

They had not communicated since college. A year ago they met at a class reunion. Since then, they have constantly talked on the phone. I know about their communication because my wife told me. However, last December my wife became secretive.

One night I heard her saying “I love you” to him. When I confronted my wife, she admitted she loved him but she still loves me, too. She said she’s not going to leave me and break up the family. She begged me not to leave or stop loving her.

As a compromise we agreed he can call her once in awhile if he has important news about their classmates. She would not call him, as I reiterated to her that would be a violation of trust. However, a month later I overheard them talking. Again she begged me not to give up on her.

I talked to my wife’s boyfriend, and he assured me he’s not trying to break up our family. He can wait until she is free, meaning if I die. If that happens, then they can pursue their dreams together. If not, then it’s not meant to be.

I love my wife and trust her with anything but her long distance love affair. He lives halfway across the country. They haven’t had physical involvement yet, but despite its absence, I am deeply hurt. Shall I leave her, give up on her, or wait and see?

Harry

Harry, your wife has shattered your world and your relationship with her. Even if she stays, you will wonder about her reasons.

She didn’t wake up the day of the reunion a different person. She was already at a point where there was room for this to occur. When your wife talks to her boyfriend, you are not there. She and her unrestrained feelings are there.

Relationships can become a habit, like putting your hat in the same place each time you come home. That does not reflect some deep emotion. It’s just a habit. Habits can mask many feelings, the lack of feeling, or the longing for something else. That is why you may not feel you saw this coming, because she was maintaining most of her habits as your wife.

Love is like a race. We all want to finish first. You cannot be forced into second place and feel good about yourself. The longer you are passive, the worse you will feel because you will be letting two other people decide what your life will be.

You must decide how much contact, if any, you can accept. You must decide if certain boundaries are crossed, what you will do. You must decide for yourself what is acceptable for you, or if a boundary has already been crossed from which there is no return.

Tamara

Simple Answers

I have been seeing this fellow for the past year. He says he has a love for me and feels comfortable with me.

He mentioned when he is around me he thinks of someone dear to his heart. I asked, “Who?” He said, “My mother.” I asked, “Is that why you can’t have sex with me, because you see your mother?” He said, “Yes.” Where does that leave me?

Zora

Zora, more than a century ago William James talked about the psychologist’s fallacy. What he meant was that people are inclined to view everything as some sort of psychological problem to be solved.

Things are often a lot simpler than that. He loves you like he loves his mother. You want someone who loves and desires you as a wife. Where does that leave you? In need of a cold shower.

Wayne

About The Author

Authors and columnists Wayne and Tamara Mitchell can be reached at www.WayneAndTamara.com.

Send letters to: Direct Answers, PO Box 964, Springfield, MO 65801 or email: DirectAnswers@WayneAndTamara.com.